2009,我是:
單身,工作狂,忽略身邊家人好友,尚算健康 !
2010,我是:
已婚,半退休,開始探索人生,極度珍惜家人,多病!
2011,我想:
繼續已婚,半退休. 參與義務工作,尋找理想的生活模式,享受生活,做回自己,OPEN myself,尋找快樂.增加新家庭成員,所有人身體都健康!!
Friday, December 31, 2010
Thursday, December 30, 2010
My happiness ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
鍾思嘉(政治大學心理系教授):
"在五分鐘內，寫下任何想到讓自己快樂的事，憑自己的直覺快速地寫下..."
My result is :
- Share my mind with best friends/family
- Saving money
- Try new things
- create a new things
- Sleeping
- Finish interesting books
- See lovers ate all i cooked
- Rest under sunshine
- experience ppl growth
- feel ppl buy my ideas
See?! Again, "substances" is not my cup of tea !! So glad to confirm this.
"在五分鐘內，寫下任何想到讓自己快樂的事，憑自己的直覺快速地寫下..."
My result is :
- Share my mind with best friends/family
- Saving money
- Try new things
- create a new things
- Sleeping
- Finish interesting books
- See lovers ate all i cooked
- Rest under sunshine
- experience ppl growth
- feel ppl buy my ideas
See?! Again, "substances" is not my cup of tea !! So glad to confirm this.
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
NOTES at Dec ~~~~~~~~~~
要開始建立習慣,
記下自己曾閱讀過的題材:
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第一拖拉機
Y GENERATION
蝸居樂與怒
小班教學
快高長大
"FATHER" AT HOME
危險少女
外傭/南亞背後
政府醫保
電子書
從原產地到咀巴的距離
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記下可以提醒自己的金句 (by tony heish):
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"I don't know what i want to do but at least I learn what i didn't want to do"
"Best negotiate skill : you don't care what the outcome is and you're not afraid to walk away"
" I had decided to stop chasing money and start chasing the passion"
"Be humble"
"In the business mind, there are many possibilities;but in the expertise mind , there are few"
"Stop try to network in traditional business sense instead just try to build up the no of depth of your friendships"
"Never outsource our competency"
"Call up friends for business ideas"
"WOW experience"
"Hotline: branding device"
"Office tour to public"
"login PC , quiz about staffs' face"
"Company culture book by employee;vendors'customer"
"POKER Vs Business : many tables, someone upset,excited,tired; diff players, dynamics, status --> can change table !!!!"
記下自己曾閱讀過的題材:
=========================
第一拖拉機
Y GENERATION
蝸居樂與怒
小班教學
快高長大
"FATHER" AT HOME
危險少女
外傭/南亞背後
政府醫保
電子書
從原產地到咀巴的距離
=========================
記下可以提醒自己的金句 (by tony heish):
=========================
"I don't know what i want to do but at least I learn what i didn't want to do"
"Best negotiate skill : you don't care what the outcome is and you're not afraid to walk away"
" I had decided to stop chasing money and start chasing the passion"
"Be humble"
"In the business mind, there are many possibilities;but in the expertise mind , there are few"
"Stop try to network in traditional business sense instead just try to build up the no of depth of your friendships"
"Never outsource our competency"
"Call up friends for business ideas"
"WOW experience"
"Hotline: branding device"
"Office tour to public"
"login PC , quiz about staffs' face"
"Company culture book by employee;vendors'customer"
"POKER Vs Business : many tables, someone upset,excited,tired; diff players, dynamics, status --> can change table !!!!"
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
MEN ARE JUST HAPPIER PEOPLE ~~~~~~~
NICKNAMES
If Laura, Kate and Sarah go out for lunch, they will call each other Laura, Kate and Sarah.
If Mike, Dave and John go out, they will affectionately refer to each other as Fat Boy, Godzilla and Four-eyes.
EATING OUT
When the bill arrives, Mike, Dave and John will each throw in $20, even though it's only for $32.50. None of them will have anything smaller and none will actually admit they want change back.
When the girls get their bill, out come the pocket calculators.
MONEY
A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he needs.
A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't need but it's on sale.
BATHROOMS
A man has six items in his bathroom: toothbrush and toothpaste, shaving cream, razor, a bar of soap, and a towel .
The average number of items in the typical woman's bathroom is 337. A man would not be able to identify more than 20 of these items.
ARGUMENTS
A woman has the last word in any argument.
Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.
FUTURE
A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.
SUCCESS
A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is one who can find such a man.
MARRIAGE
A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, but she does.
DRESSING UP
A woman will dress up to go shopping, water the plants, empty the trash, answer the phone, read a book, and get the mail.
A man will dress up for weddings and funerals.
NATURAL
Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed.
Women somehow deteriorate during the night.
OFFSPRING
Ah, children. A woman knows all about her children. She knows about dentist appointments and romances, best friends, favorite foods, secret fears and hopes and dreams.
A man is vaguely aware of some short people living in the house.
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
A married man should forget his mistakes. There's no use in two people remembering the same thing!
If Laura, Kate and Sarah go out for lunch, they will call each other Laura, Kate and Sarah.
If Mike, Dave and John go out, they will affectionately refer to each other as Fat Boy, Godzilla and Four-eyes.
EATING OUT
When the bill arrives, Mike, Dave and John will each throw in $20, even though it's only for $32.50. None of them will have anything smaller and none will actually admit they want change back.
When the girls get their bill, out come the pocket calculators.
MONEY
A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he needs.
A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't need but it's on sale.
BATHROOMS
A man has six items in his bathroom: toothbrush and toothpaste, shaving cream, razor, a bar of soap, and a towel .
The average number of items in the typical woman's bathroom is 337. A man would not be able to identify more than 20 of these items.
ARGUMENTS
A woman has the last word in any argument.
Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.
FUTURE
A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.
SUCCESS
A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is one who can find such a man.
MARRIAGE
A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, but she does.
DRESSING UP
A woman will dress up to go shopping, water the plants, empty the trash, answer the phone, read a book, and get the mail.
A man will dress up for weddings and funerals.
NATURAL
Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed.
Women somehow deteriorate during the night.
OFFSPRING
Ah, children. A woman knows all about her children. She knows about dentist appointments and romances, best friends, favorite foods, secret fears and hopes and dreams.
A man is vaguely aware of some short people living in the house.
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
A married man should forget his mistakes. There's no use in two people remembering the same thing!
Saturday, December 18, 2010
朋友 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
上星期，閒談間,總結了朋友分3個層次:
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[第一層] 普通朋友 ~~~
見面時會寒暄幾句,互相慰問一番,問題及答案離不開3大話題:工作/家庭/感情，答案幾乎可以像玄學家一樣預測得到。
" 最近點呀,工作忙不忙?"
" 拍拖/結婚/生仔未呀? "
" 依家住O向邊,O向邊度番工呀??"
而每次分別時總會說：" 得閒再約食飯啦" 作為結尾....
[第二層] 真正朋友 ~~~
見面時，言語對話間很舒服，縱使閒話家常，但內容就是不一樣，感覺就是很想了解對方更多，很想向對方表達所感所想，同時期望對方可以了解自己更多。聽聽彼此的心事，互相分擔問題，分享喜悅
當遇上問題時會感覺到對方出於真心的協助，那怕是什麼時候，什麼地點，只要提出需要，對方都會即時作出回應。
而重要朋友，總是會非常在意彼此的關係是否得以維繫
[第三層] 知己密友 ~~~
見面時，幾乎不需要開場白，因為大家實在太了解對方，太清楚對方的感知和想法。
彼此分享的，已不限於個人層面的事與物，而是對社會/世界的睇法；分享彼此的價值觀，感知世界，理想，目標等等...仔細間，會發現"知己密友"的價值觀，會諸如的相似.
知己密友間的信任，基本上沒有保留，他們之間不能讓對方知道的，可能就只是自己的人生底線.
他們相信關係一定可以維繫, 就如至親一樣...
======================
所以，俗語云："人生得一知己,死而無憾" !!
當人慢慢長大...價值觀慢慢成型的同時，就會發現....能夠多找一個 "知己密友" 實在比想像中困難。幸運的話，成長的過程已經找到。相反，要重新找一個，可以說要比住在太空更困難....
或許我對自己要求太高了，為何不能滿足於現況?? 為何總要想著這些矛盾? 我...其實已經比別人幸福多了~~
反思.................
===================================
[第一層] 普通朋友 ~~~
見面時會寒暄幾句,互相慰問一番,問題及答案離不開3大話題:工作/家庭/感情，答案幾乎可以像玄學家一樣預測得到。
" 最近點呀,工作忙不忙?"
" 拍拖/結婚/生仔未呀? "
" 依家住O向邊,O向邊度番工呀??"
而每次分別時總會說：" 得閒再約食飯啦" 作為結尾....
[第二層] 真正朋友 ~~~
見面時，言語對話間很舒服，縱使閒話家常，但內容就是不一樣，感覺就是很想了解對方更多，很想向對方表達所感所想，同時期望對方可以了解自己更多。聽聽彼此的心事，互相分擔問題，分享喜悅
當遇上問題時會感覺到對方出於真心的協助，那怕是什麼時候，什麼地點，只要提出需要，對方都會即時作出回應。
而重要朋友，總是會非常在意彼此的關係是否得以維繫
[第三層] 知己密友 ~~~
見面時，幾乎不需要開場白，因為大家實在太了解對方，太清楚對方的感知和想法。
彼此分享的，已不限於個人層面的事與物，而是對社會/世界的睇法；分享彼此的價值觀，感知世界，理想，目標等等...仔細間，會發現"知己密友"的價值觀，會諸如的相似.
知己密友間的信任，基本上沒有保留，他們之間不能讓對方知道的，可能就只是自己的人生底線.
他們相信關係一定可以維繫, 就如至親一樣...
======================
所以，俗語云："人生得一知己,死而無憾" !!
當人慢慢長大...價值觀慢慢成型的同時，就會發現....能夠多找一個 "知己密友" 實在比想像中困難。幸運的話，成長的過程已經找到。相反，要重新找一個，可以說要比住在太空更困難....
或許我對自己要求太高了，為何不能滿足於現況?? 為何總要想著這些矛盾? 我...其實已經比別人幸福多了~~
反思.................
Thursday, December 16, 2010
Happiness ~~~~~~~~~~~~
Years Ago,I have realized that my goal of living is finding "HAPPINESS"..no matter by achieving something at work or doing something i preferred. I enjoy fulfillment, especially from O to 1. At least I am quite sure i am not a money salve ,I don't really want to be a millionaire or else. Now,I felt satisfy. I do enjoy simple life and feel comfortable and happiness with my dearest family.
But ....recently,I am not feel good, it is not because the weather is getting cold,it seems my heart told me that i am a bit not match to the general thinking of my peers which makes me feel not very happy.
Here, I would like to asking "Why"s :
Why I refuse to join gatherings with friends which only included superficial talk ?
Why I am not enjoy listening the topics that should be interested in my age? ( personal issues included marriage;babies;problems at workplace...etc..) seems to me that those contents is repeating and repeating....
Why I always be a listener among friends but not a speaker to let me share my in-depth feeling and values? Have I hided myself for a long time?? Should I be more open-minded to let more friends get inside my heart, discuss with me more than about personal issues, for example economics,energy crisis,business ideas,helping the poverty,human behavior etc. Anyone have time and interest in such topics ??
Of course i found one who is sleeping besides me,he is my lovely husband.And I am sure this is one of the reason I married him.^O^
Besides him, anyone else?? I am not finding someone to love me, but just find someone who enjoy sharing bigger topics with me too. This make me felt not good...
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Until this week,I read this book,I admire "Tony Hsieh" who can find his "passion" even "purpose" to live in this world...."Delivering Happiness to change the world". How cool !!!!! He makes me feel happy again.
The book told his success story. The main point to me is his execution approach to achieve the goal is something I can't imagine before.You know, it is really hard to balance the "Business" & "Happiness" in real world, humanity and money will make it deteriorate.But the fact is he can do it successfully in that practical way. He execute it well and proved the theory!
How can a small potato like me can do something like him ?? This should be a good question for myself to think deeply.
Back to me, before "Delivering" Happiness, I do concentrate on finding my own "Happiness" , passion to develop some platform for me to achieve it first.
Let's see !!!
.
But ....recently,I am not feel good, it is not because the weather is getting cold,it seems my heart told me that i am a bit not match to the general thinking of my peers which makes me feel not very happy.
Here, I would like to asking "Why"s :
Why I refuse to join gatherings with friends which only included superficial talk ?
Why I am not enjoy listening the topics that should be interested in my age? ( personal issues included marriage;babies;problems at workplace...etc..) seems to me that those contents is repeating and repeating....
Why I always be a listener among friends but not a speaker to let me share my in-depth feeling and values? Have I hided myself for a long time?? Should I be more open-minded to let more friends get inside my heart, discuss with me more than about personal issues, for example economics,energy crisis,business ideas,helping the poverty,human behavior etc. Anyone have time and interest in such topics ??
Of course i found one who is sleeping besides me,he is my lovely husband.And I am sure this is one of the reason I married him.^O^
Besides him, anyone else?? I am not finding someone to love me, but just find someone who enjoy sharing bigger topics with me too. This make me felt not good...
--------------------------------------------------------
Until this week,I read this book,I admire "Tony Hsieh" who can find his "passion" even "purpose" to live in this world...."Delivering Happiness to change the world". How cool !!!!! He makes me feel happy again.
The book told his success story. The main point to me is his execution approach to achieve the goal is something I can't imagine before.You know, it is really hard to balance the "Business" & "Happiness" in real world, humanity and money will make it deteriorate.But the fact is he can do it successfully in that practical way. He execute it well and proved the theory!
How can a small potato like me can do something like him ?? This should be a good question for myself to think deeply.
Back to me, before "Delivering" Happiness, I do concentrate on finding my own "Happiness" , passion to develop some platform for me to achieve it first.
Let's see !!!
.
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
踏入第 9 個月 ~~~~~~~~~~~~
別人說,結婚前後只是形式上的不同,沒什麼大不了的轉變... 九個月了...轉變之大,難以形容!!
那種互相依賴,守顧,分享,支持..比以前更實在,之間的默契更深入,那怕只是一個眼神,一個小動作,一個發音,都已經知道對方在想什麼,在做什麼..反正對方就是自己肚內的一條虫,永遠都知道自己所感所想
最近,遇上了一些困惑,實在找不到合適的人傾訴,從前的傾訴對象好像也不太幫上忙,大概是大家的處境不同吧....幸好有你,為我解難,現在有新的想法... 始終,還是你最了解我... !!
Thanks,My Happiness dear ~~~~~~ ^O^
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那種互相依賴,守顧,分享,支持..比以前更實在,之間的默契更深入,那怕只是一個眼神,一個小動作,一個發音,都已經知道對方在想什麼,在做什麼..反正對方就是自己肚內的一條虫,永遠都知道自己所感所想
最近,遇上了一些困惑,實在找不到合適的人傾訴,從前的傾訴對象好像也不太幫上忙,大概是大家的處境不同吧....幸好有你,為我解難,現在有新的想法... 始終,還是你最了解我... !!
Thanks,My Happiness dear ~~~~~~ ^O^
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