2009,我是:
單身,工作狂,忽略身邊家人好友,尚算健康 !
2010,我是:
已婚,半退休,開始探索人生,極度珍惜家人,多病!
2011,我想:
繼續已婚,半退休. 參與義務工作,尋找理想的生活模式,享受生活,做回自己,OPEN myself,尋找快樂.增加新家庭成員,所有人身體都健康!!
Friday, December 31, 2010
Thursday, December 30, 2010
My happiness ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
鍾思嘉(政治大學心理系教授):
"在五分鐘內，寫下任何想到讓自己快樂的事，憑自己的直覺快速地寫下..."
My result is :
- Share my mind with best friends/family
- Saving money
- Try new things
- create a new things
- Sleeping
- Finish interesting books
- See lovers ate all i cooked
- Rest under sunshine
- experience ppl growth
- feel ppl buy my ideas
See?! Again, "substances" is not my cup of tea !! So glad to confirm this.
"在五分鐘內，寫下任何想到讓自己快樂的事，憑自己的直覺快速地寫下..."
My result is :
- Share my mind with best friends/family
- Saving money
- Try new things
- create a new things
- Sleeping
- Finish interesting books
- See lovers ate all i cooked
- Rest under sunshine
- experience ppl growth
- feel ppl buy my ideas
See?! Again, "substances" is not my cup of tea !! So glad to confirm this.
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
NOTES at Dec ~~~~~~~~~~
要開始建立習慣,
記下自己曾閱讀過的題材:
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第一拖拉機
Y GENERATION
蝸居樂與怒
小班教學
快高長大
"FATHER" AT HOME
危險少女
外傭/南亞背後
政府醫保
電子書
從原產地到咀巴的距離
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記下可以提醒自己的金句 (by tony heish):
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"I don't know what i want to do but at least I learn what i didn't want to do"
"Best negotiate skill : you don't care what the outcome is and you're not afraid to walk away"
" I had decided to stop chasing money and start chasing the passion"
"Be humble"
"In the business mind, there are many possibilities;but in the expertise mind , there are few"
"Stop try to network in traditional business sense instead just try to build up the no of depth of your friendships"
"Never outsource our competency"
"Call up friends for business ideas"
"WOW experience"
"Hotline: branding device"
"Office tour to public"
"login PC , quiz about staffs' face"
"Company culture book by employee;vendors'customer"
"POKER Vs Business : many tables, someone upset,excited,tired; diff players, dynamics, status --> can change table !!!!"
記下自己曾閱讀過的題材:
=========================
第一拖拉機
Y GENERATION
蝸居樂與怒
小班教學
快高長大
"FATHER" AT HOME
危險少女
外傭/南亞背後
政府醫保
電子書
從原產地到咀巴的距離
=========================
記下可以提醒自己的金句 (by tony heish):
=========================
"I don't know what i want to do but at least I learn what i didn't want to do"
"Best negotiate skill : you don't care what the outcome is and you're not afraid to walk away"
" I had decided to stop chasing money and start chasing the passion"
"Be humble"
"In the business mind, there are many possibilities;but in the expertise mind , there are few"
"Stop try to network in traditional business sense instead just try to build up the no of depth of your friendships"
"Never outsource our competency"
"Call up friends for business ideas"
"WOW experience"
"Hotline: branding device"
"Office tour to public"
"login PC , quiz about staffs' face"
"Company culture book by employee;vendors'customer"
"POKER Vs Business : many tables, someone upset,excited,tired; diff players, dynamics, status --> can change table !!!!"
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
MEN ARE JUST HAPPIER PEOPLE ~~~~~~~
NICKNAMES
If Laura, Kate and Sarah go out for lunch, they will call each other Laura, Kate and Sarah.
If Mike, Dave and John go out, they will affectionately refer to each other as Fat Boy, Godzilla and Four-eyes.
EATING OUT
When the bill arrives, Mike, Dave and John will each throw in $20, even though it's only for $32.50. None of them will have anything smaller and none will actually admit they want change back.
When the girls get their bill, out come the pocket calculators.
MONEY
A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he needs.
A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't need but it's on sale.
BATHROOMS
A man has six items in his bathroom: toothbrush and toothpaste, shaving cream, razor, a bar of soap, and a towel .
The average number of items in the typical woman's bathroom is 337. A man would not be able to identify more than 20 of these items.
ARGUMENTS
A woman has the last word in any argument.
Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.
FUTURE
A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.
SUCCESS
A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is one who can find such a man.
MARRIAGE
A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, but she does.
DRESSING UP
A woman will dress up to go shopping, water the plants, empty the trash, answer the phone, read a book, and get the mail.
A man will dress up for weddings and funerals.
NATURAL
Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed.
Women somehow deteriorate during the night.
OFFSPRING
Ah, children. A woman knows all about her children. She knows about dentist appointments and romances, best friends, favorite foods, secret fears and hopes and dreams.
A man is vaguely aware of some short people living in the house.
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
A married man should forget his mistakes. There's no use in two people remembering the same thing!
If Laura, Kate and Sarah go out for lunch, they will call each other Laura, Kate and Sarah.
If Mike, Dave and John go out, they will affectionately refer to each other as Fat Boy, Godzilla and Four-eyes.
EATING OUT
When the bill arrives, Mike, Dave and John will each throw in $20, even though it's only for $32.50. None of them will have anything smaller and none will actually admit they want change back.
When the girls get their bill, out come the pocket calculators.
MONEY
A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he needs.
A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't need but it's on sale.
BATHROOMS
A man has six items in his bathroom: toothbrush and toothpaste, shaving cream, razor, a bar of soap, and a towel .
The average number of items in the typical woman's bathroom is 337. A man would not be able to identify more than 20 of these items.
ARGUMENTS
A woman has the last word in any argument.
Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.
FUTURE
A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.
SUCCESS
A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is one who can find such a man.
MARRIAGE
A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, but she does.
DRESSING UP
A woman will dress up to go shopping, water the plants, empty the trash, answer the phone, read a book, and get the mail.
A man will dress up for weddings and funerals.
NATURAL
Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed.
Women somehow deteriorate during the night.
OFFSPRING
Ah, children. A woman knows all about her children. She knows about dentist appointments and romances, best friends, favorite foods, secret fears and hopes and dreams.
A man is vaguely aware of some short people living in the house.
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
A married man should forget his mistakes. There's no use in two people remembering the same thing!
Saturday, December 18, 2010
朋友 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
上星期，閒談間,總結了朋友分3個層次:
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[第一層] 普通朋友 ~~~
見面時會寒暄幾句,互相慰問一番,問題及答案離不開3大話題:工作/家庭/感情，答案幾乎可以像玄學家一樣預測得到。
" 最近點呀,工作忙不忙?"
" 拍拖/結婚/生仔未呀? "
" 依家住O向邊,O向邊度番工呀??"
而每次分別時總會說：" 得閒再約食飯啦" 作為結尾....
[第二層] 真正朋友 ~~~
見面時，言語對話間很舒服，縱使閒話家常，但內容就是不一樣，感覺就是很想了解對方更多，很想向對方表達所感所想，同時期望對方可以了解自己更多。聽聽彼此的心事，互相分擔問題，分享喜悅
當遇上問題時會感覺到對方出於真心的協助，那怕是什麼時候，什麼地點，只要提出需要，對方都會即時作出回應。
而重要朋友，總是會非常在意彼此的關係是否得以維繫
[第三層] 知己密友 ~~~
見面時，幾乎不需要開場白，因為大家實在太了解對方，太清楚對方的感知和想法。
彼此分享的，已不限於個人層面的事與物，而是對社會/世界的睇法；分享彼此的價值觀，感知世界，理想，目標等等...仔細間，會發現"知己密友"的價值觀，會諸如的相似.
知己密友間的信任，基本上沒有保留，他們之間不能讓對方知道的，可能就只是自己的人生底線.
他們相信關係一定可以維繫, 就如至親一樣...
======================
所以，俗語云："人生得一知己,死而無憾" !!
當人慢慢長大...價值觀慢慢成型的同時，就會發現....能夠多找一個 "知己密友" 實在比想像中困難。幸運的話，成長的過程已經找到。相反，要重新找一個，可以說要比住在太空更困難....
或許我對自己要求太高了，為何不能滿足於現況?? 為何總要想著這些矛盾? 我...其實已經比別人幸福多了~~
反思.................
===================================
[第一層] 普通朋友 ~~~
見面時會寒暄幾句,互相慰問一番,問題及答案離不開3大話題:工作/家庭/感情，答案幾乎可以像玄學家一樣預測得到。
" 最近點呀,工作忙不忙?"
" 拍拖/結婚/生仔未呀? "
" 依家住O向邊,O向邊度番工呀??"
而每次分別時總會說：" 得閒再約食飯啦" 作為結尾....
[第二層] 真正朋友 ~~~
見面時，言語對話間很舒服，縱使閒話家常，但內容就是不一樣，感覺就是很想了解對方更多，很想向對方表達所感所想，同時期望對方可以了解自己更多。聽聽彼此的心事，互相分擔問題，分享喜悅
當遇上問題時會感覺到對方出於真心的協助，那怕是什麼時候，什麼地點，只要提出需要，對方都會即時作出回應。
而重要朋友，總是會非常在意彼此的關係是否得以維繫
[第三層] 知己密友 ~~~
見面時，幾乎不需要開場白，因為大家實在太了解對方，太清楚對方的感知和想法。
彼此分享的，已不限於個人層面的事與物，而是對社會/世界的睇法；分享彼此的價值觀，感知世界，理想，目標等等...仔細間，會發現"知己密友"的價值觀，會諸如的相似.
知己密友間的信任，基本上沒有保留，他們之間不能讓對方知道的，可能就只是自己的人生底線.
他們相信關係一定可以維繫, 就如至親一樣...
======================
所以，俗語云："人生得一知己,死而無憾" !!
當人慢慢長大...價值觀慢慢成型的同時，就會發現....能夠多找一個 "知己密友" 實在比想像中困難。幸運的話，成長的過程已經找到。相反，要重新找一個，可以說要比住在太空更困難....
或許我對自己要求太高了，為何不能滿足於現況?? 為何總要想著這些矛盾? 我...其實已經比別人幸福多了~~
反思.................
Thursday, December 16, 2010
Happiness ~~~~~~~~~~~~
Years Ago,I have realized that my goal of living is finding "HAPPINESS"..no matter by achieving something at work or doing something i preferred. I enjoy fulfillment, especially from O to 1. At least I am quite sure i am not a money salve ,I don't really want to be a millionaire or else. Now,I felt satisfy. I do enjoy simple life and feel comfortable and happiness with my dearest family.
But ....recently,I am not feel good, it is not because the weather is getting cold,it seems my heart told me that i am a bit not match to the general thinking of my peers which makes me feel not very happy.
Here, I would like to asking "Why"s :
Why I refuse to join gatherings with friends which only included superficial talk ?
Why I am not enjoy listening the topics that should be interested in my age? ( personal issues included marriage;babies;problems at workplace...etc..) seems to me that those contents is repeating and repeating....
Why I always be a listener among friends but not a speaker to let me share my in-depth feeling and values? Have I hided myself for a long time?? Should I be more open-minded to let more friends get inside my heart, discuss with me more than about personal issues, for example economics,energy crisis,business ideas,helping the poverty,human behavior etc. Anyone have time and interest in such topics ??
Of course i found one who is sleeping besides me,he is my lovely husband.And I am sure this is one of the reason I married him.^O^
Besides him, anyone else?? I am not finding someone to love me, but just find someone who enjoy sharing bigger topics with me too. This make me felt not good...
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Until this week,I read this book,I admire "Tony Hsieh" who can find his "passion" even "purpose" to live in this world...."Delivering Happiness to change the world". How cool !!!!! He makes me feel happy again.
The book told his success story. The main point to me is his execution approach to achieve the goal is something I can't imagine before.You know, it is really hard to balance the "Business" & "Happiness" in real world, humanity and money will make it deteriorate.But the fact is he can do it successfully in that practical way. He execute it well and proved the theory!
How can a small potato like me can do something like him ?? This should be a good question for myself to think deeply.
Back to me, before "Delivering" Happiness, I do concentrate on finding my own "Happiness" , passion to develop some platform for me to achieve it first.
Let's see !!!
.
But ....recently,I am not feel good, it is not because the weather is getting cold,it seems my heart told me that i am a bit not match to the general thinking of my peers which makes me feel not very happy.
Here, I would like to asking "Why"s :
Why I refuse to join gatherings with friends which only included superficial talk ?
Why I am not enjoy listening the topics that should be interested in my age? ( personal issues included marriage;babies;problems at workplace...etc..) seems to me that those contents is repeating and repeating....
Why I always be a listener among friends but not a speaker to let me share my in-depth feeling and values? Have I hided myself for a long time?? Should I be more open-minded to let more friends get inside my heart, discuss with me more than about personal issues, for example economics,energy crisis,business ideas,helping the poverty,human behavior etc. Anyone have time and interest in such topics ??
Of course i found one who is sleeping besides me,he is my lovely husband.And I am sure this is one of the reason I married him.^O^
Besides him, anyone else?? I am not finding someone to love me, but just find someone who enjoy sharing bigger topics with me too. This make me felt not good...
--------------------------------------------------------
Until this week,I read this book,I admire "Tony Hsieh" who can find his "passion" even "purpose" to live in this world...."Delivering Happiness to change the world". How cool !!!!! He makes me feel happy again.
The book told his success story. The main point to me is his execution approach to achieve the goal is something I can't imagine before.You know, it is really hard to balance the "Business" & "Happiness" in real world, humanity and money will make it deteriorate.But the fact is he can do it successfully in that practical way. He execute it well and proved the theory!
How can a small potato like me can do something like him ?? This should be a good question for myself to think deeply.
Back to me, before "Delivering" Happiness, I do concentrate on finding my own "Happiness" , passion to develop some platform for me to achieve it first.
Let's see !!!
.
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
踏入第 9 個月 ~~~~~~~~~~~~
別人說,結婚前後只是形式上的不同,沒什麼大不了的轉變... 九個月了...轉變之大,難以形容!!
那種互相依賴,守顧,分享,支持..比以前更實在,之間的默契更深入,那怕只是一個眼神,一個小動作,一個發音,都已經知道對方在想什麼,在做什麼..反正對方就是自己肚內的一條虫,永遠都知道自己所感所想
最近,遇上了一些困惑,實在找不到合適的人傾訴,從前的傾訴對象好像也不太幫上忙,大概是大家的處境不同吧....幸好有你,為我解難,現在有新的想法... 始終,還是你最了解我... !!
Thanks,My Happiness dear ~~~~~~ ^O^
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那種互相依賴,守顧,分享,支持..比以前更實在,之間的默契更深入,那怕只是一個眼神,一個小動作,一個發音,都已經知道對方在想什麼,在做什麼..反正對方就是自己肚內的一條虫,永遠都知道自己所感所想
最近,遇上了一些困惑,實在找不到合適的人傾訴,從前的傾訴對象好像也不太幫上忙,大概是大家的處境不同吧....幸好有你,為我解難,現在有新的想法... 始終,還是你最了解我... !!
Thanks,My Happiness dear ~~~~~~ ^O^
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Monday, November 29, 2010
Monday, October 25, 2010
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
尋找起點 ~~~~~~~~~~~
進入第2個月全職c9的生活....現在來一個總結...
除了c9, 我是...一個兼職看護,兼職廚師,兼職行政顧問,兼職會計,兼職股民,兼職司機....
我比以往更了解投資..經濟..認識了巴菲特,中國貧富二代,香港港孩,海外發展機遇,社會企業,幼童發展途徑..進一步理解自己深層的想法及興趣
這個月的時間讓我走前了一步..在不斷接收周遭以往不會在意的新事物間收窄了起點的選擇..
深信不久的將來...我會找到起點 !!!!
.
除了c9, 我是...一個兼職看護,兼職廚師,兼職行政顧問,兼職會計,兼職股民,兼職司機....
我比以往更了解投資..經濟..認識了巴菲特,中國貧富二代,香港港孩,海外發展機遇,社會企業,幼童發展途徑..進一步理解自己深層的想法及興趣
這個月的時間讓我走前了一步..在不斷接收周遭以往不會在意的新事物間收窄了起點的選擇..
深信不久的將來...我會找到起點 !!!!
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Friday, July 30, 2010
原來 ~~~~~~~~~~~
總結頭1個月的長假, 全職C9生活令我發現.....
原來 健康 是這麼得來不易....(媽媽的病;5天感冒;胃抽筋)
原來 醫院 是這樣運作, 醫生 是這樣工作..(港安醫院;法國醫院;威爾斯親王醫院)
原來 新居 比我想像中還要舒服, 還要理想..(按摩泳池;交通便利;無限寧靜)
原來 我真的捨得放棄陪伴我4年,見證我成長的Bunchu
原來 市場上對JAZZ的需求是這麼懇切
原來 現在的按揭利息真的可以這麼低
原來 電視媒體的資訊是這樣精彩, 頓然得悉自己的無知
原來 書展的吸引力是如此的大,有生以來從未如此這樣渴求知識
原來 世界變得更預期更快...(新藥,新科技,新特技,新的商業生存模式)
原來 工作時間都有人組隊打排球的
原來 我真的可以這麼有規律,每天跟老公一起起床, 煮早餐
原來 我也算可以"入得廚房,出的廳堂"
原來 年紀大了,真的沒有以往這麼好氣... 唱K都發現有點勉強...
原來 肯花時間跟朋友們見面及慢慢細說聊天可以得著這樣多及這樣高興...像是重新了解大家...
原來 身邊的每一個人都如此的可愛, 以往實在沒有用心了解大家...
原來 他真的有類似的能力...令我更感謝神
原來 為自己付出的時間是這麼不夠用的,感覺到每一秒都在增值,有得著..心靈是如此的滿足
原來 真正放鬆的步伐是可以這麼閒慢的
Information and experience is power!! I believe all of the above can let me move on....!!!
原來 健康 是這麼得來不易....(媽媽的病;5天感冒;胃抽筋)
原來 醫院 是這樣運作, 醫生 是這樣工作..(港安醫院;法國醫院;威爾斯親王醫院)
原來 新居 比我想像中還要舒服, 還要理想..(按摩泳池;交通便利;無限寧靜)
原來 我真的捨得放棄陪伴我4年,見證我成長的Bunchu
原來 市場上對JAZZ的需求是這麼懇切
原來 現在的按揭利息真的可以這麼低
原來 電視媒體的資訊是這樣精彩, 頓然得悉自己的無知
原來 書展的吸引力是如此的大,有生以來從未如此這樣渴求知識
原來 世界變得更預期更快...(新藥,新科技,新特技,新的商業生存模式)
原來 工作時間都有人組隊打排球的
原來 我真的可以這麼有規律,每天跟老公一起起床, 煮早餐
原來 我也算可以"入得廚房,出的廳堂"
原來 年紀大了,真的沒有以往這麼好氣... 唱K都發現有點勉強...
原來 肯花時間跟朋友們見面及慢慢細說聊天可以得著這樣多及這樣高興...像是重新了解大家...
原來 身邊的每一個人都如此的可愛, 以往實在沒有用心了解大家...
原來 他真的有類似的能力...令我更感謝神
原來 為自己付出的時間是這麼不夠用的,感覺到每一秒都在增值,有得著..心靈是如此的滿足
原來 真正放鬆的步伐是可以這麼閒慢的
Information and experience is power!! I believe all of the above can let me move on....!!!
Monday, June 07, 2010
過去10 年，未來10 年 ~~~~~~~~
好一句 " 為過去10年劃上完美的句號，為未來10年作最好的準備”
今年，是我進入社會大學第10週年， 為紀念脫離學生生涯，全職工作了10年，這個月，我決定給自己一個前所未有的長假作為禮物，慶祝一番!!!!
10年過去了，我從一個無知的年青人變為部份人眼中羨慕的中產階級,10年間步步高陞，先是買車，買樓，結婚,嘗過百萬結存，體驗過一人之下萬人之上的優越感.....簡單來說，可以以 "精彩”來總結 !!
別人問....既然這麼精彩，又何必毅然放棄一切，要從新開始?? 這個可以由 Maslow 的需求模型說起....
或許對我來說，已滿足了" Survival , Security , Social, Achievement"4大需要....剩下的，就是 "Self Actualization"
那問自己，what is my "Self Actualization" ?? What is my dream ?? What is my real value in the world ??
當思考這個問題時...可以坦白說，我未有定案，潛意識只告訴我..." Must not like this......”
我會羨慕一些在盡力為自己理念／興趣奮鬥的人，他們當中有的是為”爭取民主”,”做小生意" ”變成龍友”，”欣賞音樂”，”鑽研文化科學” 等等...
他們未必是群眾眼中的 ”出色者”， 未必在工作上擔當重要的角色，但可以肯定的是他們正在實踐自己的理想 !!!!
10年前，我的理想是可以做一個職場女強人，得到別人的肯定，10年後的今天，對於要求不高的我來說，已經算是達到了...
所以，是時候尋找另一個重新的理想，為這個目標奮鬥...
要深思 ”理想” 並不簡單，要花時間進一步探索自己.既然決定了要做這個改變，決定放棄一切，就是重要的一步，因為這樣的話，就再沒有藉口說 "沒有時間" 了!!!!!
No matter what next , NO Regret !! This is an order to myself !!!!
My Brand New 10 years, i am coming !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This signature .. See u ~~~~~
．
今年，是我進入社會大學第10週年， 為紀念脫離學生生涯，全職工作了10年，這個月，我決定給自己一個前所未有的長假作為禮物，慶祝一番!!!!
10年過去了，我從一個無知的年青人變為部份人眼中羨慕的中產階級,10年間步步高陞，先是買車，買樓，結婚,嘗過百萬結存，體驗過一人之下萬人之上的優越感.....簡單來說，可以以 "精彩”來總結 !!
別人問....既然這麼精彩，又何必毅然放棄一切，要從新開始?? 這個可以由 Maslow 的需求模型說起....
或許對我來說，已滿足了" Survival , Security , Social, Achievement"4大需要....剩下的，就是 "Self Actualization"
那問自己，what is my "Self Actualization" ?? What is my dream ?? What is my real value in the world ??
當思考這個問題時...可以坦白說，我未有定案，潛意識只告訴我..." Must not like this......”
我會羨慕一些在盡力為自己理念／興趣奮鬥的人，他們當中有的是為”爭取民主”,”做小生意" ”變成龍友”，”欣賞音樂”，”鑽研文化科學” 等等...
他們未必是群眾眼中的 ”出色者”， 未必在工作上擔當重要的角色，但可以肯定的是他們正在實踐自己的理想 !!!!
10年前，我的理想是可以做一個職場女強人，得到別人的肯定，10年後的今天，對於要求不高的我來說，已經算是達到了...
所以，是時候尋找另一個重新的理想，為這個目標奮鬥...
要深思 ”理想” 並不簡單，要花時間進一步探索自己.既然決定了要做這個改變，決定放棄一切，就是重要的一步，因為這樣的話，就再沒有藉口說 "沒有時間" 了!!!!!
No matter what next , NO Regret !! This is an order to myself !!!!
My Brand New 10 years, i am coming !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This signature .. See u ~~~~~
．
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
NEW PROJECT !!!!!
在我而言, 這是一個追求夢想的故事....... 沒有人知道下一步會怎樣, 大家只抱著信念衝衝衝 !!!!!!!!!!!!!
我不介意這份不確定性... 反而更慶幸我能在背後佔一席位.....物以類聚....可能是這樣, 上天才會有這個安排...
究竟事情會演變成怎樣呢 ? 無論怎樣, 己作了最懷打算...輸得起!!!!
這份"衝" 的感覺似曾相識, 但從這年起, 就完全消失.....落差實在太大了, 加上這個追夢的故事, 試問又怎能沒有離心的感覺....??
留下來，每天準時報到，都只是為大局考慮, 似乎真的沒有選擇....籌碼已經用盡..... 難道可以置身事外 ? 做不到...只好坐這山... 同時一面望那山.....可能反而這樣,更可以客觀一點監察整個過程的發展....
Anyway... let's see ....!!!
Saturday, May 15, 2010
516 ~ 得2個選擇 ?????
2010 年5月16日, 立法會補選.....
....5位立法會成員...數月前狠狠的辭了職...政府需要因此動用1憶5千萬舉行全民補選, 明知道最後結果仍是他們5位回立法會... 但仍要用這筆納稅人的錢...
絕對理解他們為的是希望用市民的每一票,告訴中國政府香港人的聲音, 告訴他們我們希望有真普選,費除功能組別....
目的上我絕對同意, 也沒有質疑的空間, 但...對於利用這個方法來爭取, 是否是一個好的方法, 最後的秘密武器呢? 很疑惑....
永遠都說,沒有不能解決的問題, 只有解決的方法得出的結果是否最能取得雙嬴狀態....
政場如商場, 要勝出,必須有出色的市場策略...宣傳口號不斷說, "投票表示支持五區公投,支持民主 ; 不投票表示放棄民主, 支持小圈子政治"...這次明顯5位立法會成員宣傳上取得一勝...但用了這麼多宜傳費, 得出的效果又值不值呢 ???
媒體及網絡世界,聽到的大部份是支持投票的人,那沒有出聲的人就代表放棄民主嗎???
為什麼只有2個選擇 ?? 如果我是支持爭取民主但反對用這個方法..那我應該投票還是不投呢...???
投不投...對我都是不公平.....又有沒有人會考慮我們這班人的想法 ?? 有第3個選擇嗎???
我絕對相信, 會有更好的方法做到同樣的效果..只可以說... 5位立法會成員...你們某程度上也在放棄像我這班支持者......
Monday, April 12, 2010
3210 Wedding ~ 自己及老死篇
我喜歡 "充實"及 "忙碌", 因為我享受為事情付出努力時所經歷的過程及結果 !!!!
這次也不例外，3個月的籌備婚禮工作令我得到無比的充實及忙碌，但帶給我的, 並不能只用 "享受" 來形容這麼簡單, 是要用 "夢想成真"及" 無比感動" 才夠貼切 !!
"夢想成真"，是終於可以實現了自己心目中的婚禮，每一個人，每一個片段，每一個場景，每一句對白都是我所期待，所響往的...現在全都都真實浮現在眼前, 另外最開心的，是２對父母都被我們感動，感受到我們的愛.
" 無比感動"，是真的想不到由籌備到當日，父母朋友知己們可以為我地付出這麼多，可以為我們這麼高興，更重要的，是可以同我地一樣這麼投入/興奮/感動 !!!!!
還記得他們及賓客們給我們的幾句說話.....
” 整個過程，害我哭了幾次”
” 真的很成功，氣氛很好，還很感動”
” My dear , I got really great fun on that day !!"
" 好精彩！做得好好"
”是我出席這麼多婚宴最有創意的一個！”
等等...
好老土講句 : 這並不是 me & lun 的功勞，是一班真心為我們的兄弟姊妹努力的成果 !!!!'
沒有Sandra, 流程不會這麼順，物資不會這麼齊，節目不會這麼精彩...
沒有Brad, 現場氣氛不會這麼好...大家不會這麼HIGH!!!
沒有Shum, 親托不到我的美....woodstock 也不能參與當中
沒有Manson,成長片段不會這樣精彩...
沒有Becky, 我不會這麼上鏡......
沒有Simpson, 客人不會這麼集中.....我們不會這樣高漲 ...
沒有Vivian,我的皮膚不可能這樣好，更不可能可以專心上妝....
沒有T-Lun, 印記不會這麼搶鏡及難忘..我們的樣不會這麼cute....
沒有Man, 我不會這麼放心...
沒有何俊 & 陳恆, 我們不會見到老BenZ & Bunchu....
沒有Maddog, SM Hong & Cary ,我們不會有車隊的出現....
沒有Terri,兄弟們不會有這些搞笑的經歷.....
沒有Sm Tat,馬會不會多賺２仟多元的善款，賓客不會有這麼精美的禮物.....
沒有PO, 賓客們不會這麼冷靜.....
沒有Miki, Jovi & Jeffrey ,我們在花車時不會這麼好玩.....
雖然 "多謝"不足夠表達對你們的感謝，但我相信大家甘 Friend ,心照 !!!!
感受 "愛”及"被愛"是幸福的標記 ...可以肯定的是...你們的愛我們都收到了....我真的很幸福 ~~~~
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
NEXT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
一切都塵埃落定, 按著新安排走......別人問我有什麼感覺...我只說一句 "像放下了一顆大石"...
雖然肩膀負重減輕了, 已沒什麼重量, 但看著代我擔下這頭石的人, 實在沒法忍心不理.......
我可以做的, 就是當一個隱形人, 在他旁邊幫忙扶著.......我清晰知道目的只希望他可以堅持下去....
另一邊箱... 我在找尋另一頭石, 讓自己看起來仍有價值....不知道結果怎樣... 反正隨心好了..
有捨才有得... 期待 最新的 "得著". 極難得的豐厚回報.... 忘記吧 !!
2地奔波的生活....再見了....
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